Monday, May 17, 2010


took this one from my dear friend Sabrina Kamaruddin...

“People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered;

… Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;

… Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;

… Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;

… Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;

… Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;

… Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;

… Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;

… Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis,
it is between you and God;

It was never between you and them anyway."

--Mother Theresa--

Friday, May 14, 2010


adduiii... mantapnye tajuk... bikin panas saja....

u see this done everywhere, bila tunggu bas, bila tengok wayang, bila jalan-jalan kat mall atau kekadang dalam kelas pon ada.....

its like facebook, almost everyone is doing it!

what is my definition of bergomol? pretty much like most people define it. the difference to me is when you dah sangat tak tahu malu dan melakukanya di depan orang ramai dan mula menyakitkan mata saya.

memang la best.... best ke? if holding hands while walking tu I don't mind. sebab saya pon buat.... saya bukan na berlagak baik tapi saya rasa saya belum pernah menyentuh, belai-belai, peluk-peluk, cuim-cuim makwe saya dan mengilai-ngilai manja depan orang ramai.... saya tau awak sayang dia, tapi takyah tunjuk. the fact that you are walking side-by-side is enough to show there is something going on between both of you. U know the saying "GET A ROOM" or not??? they say room because its common sense not to bergomol in public....

just have SEX then???

ishh... tak bole.... berdosa.... x kawen lagi tak bole.... haram.... Tuhan marah.... "erm, yang awak buat tu apa eh sebenarnya???" [in my dictionary this is known as a hypocrite]

the only difference with bergomol and sex is your clothes are still on.... THE SIN IS STILL THE SAME.... the reason to be in a relationship is to share the burden in life that you cannot share with family. To have a soul mate that pulls you through thick and thin. Kita ni orang melayu, kene la wat cara melayu kan? nati saya panggil awak mat salleh awak marah...

"alaa... tapi ni zaman modern.... tak rawk la kalau couple tapi tak wat camtu"

okey, thats wat you say.... but think about this:

1. macam sayur kat pasar time petang, bila dah ada orang usik-usik, pegang-pegang, dah ada kesan-kesan orang sentuh, you think ada ke orang lain pandang and nak sayur tU?? in fact they sell it off for cheap and is given to feed animals and such... In human terms this is equivalent to a hooker....

2. not everyone thinks what you are doing is hot.... malah meluat pula jadinya....

3. itu pon kalau awak kawen dengan dia, Kalau tak? ada ke orang nak kat awak setelah mereka tau awak menggomol atau digomol orang lain?

3. time-time awak bergomol kat mall tu, tetiba pakcik or makcik awak nampak awak.... then they ask, "eh, you ni anak encik Polan bin Polan kan?"............. awak mungkin tak malu, but in this sentence, know that they remember your parents name and not yours....

4. kalau your parents tak tahu, yang di atas sana tau....


and finally to those yang merasakan diri mereka tak pernah wat mende macam ni:

I am happy for you, teruskan je la begitu, get in a healthy relationship and get married as soon as possible, sex is much more meaningful with the one you love and one to share the weight of raising your children... it is.... doa-doa je la awak tak buat nanti....

and I hope I won't do it either, You can slap me in the face if I do in future.... please, I beg you... but the main question remains....



p/s: If at any point you terasa, obviously you know what you are doing is wrong.....